Ann Malabre graduated from Exeter in 1981 and earned her B.S. in Biology from Trinity College and M.A.T. from Simmons College. She is a writer and educator of nonviolent social activism. Trained in Nonviolent Communication, and the neuroscience of trauma, she is an advocate for healing change and accountability in the response to gender violence. She facilitates intergenerational healing and ancestral understanding through family constellations, and is a trauma support coach. She consults to bring restorative work and circle dialogues to educational communities. In the past she was the Associate Dean of Students at Governor’s Academy (Byfield, MA), and an instructor and instructor trainer at Hurricane Island and North Carolina Outward Bound Schools. At the Kurt Hahn Leadership Center, she trained instructors in learning and teaching styles and developed experiential curriculum for the Expeditionary Learning charter school.  Ann willingly supports survivors of sexual misconduct from Exeter in any way that is meaningful to them.

Ann was assaulted by Exeter anthropology teacher Donald Foster, and dorm master and history teacher Richard Schubart


Julia Gray graduated from Exeter in 1997 and went on to pursue degrees in Music Performance and English.  She worked in arts administration at Carnegie Hall for ten years before stepping away from the professional workforce to be a full time mother to her two sons.  Inspired in large part by her work with PATH and Exeter survivors of sexual harm, Julia is currently completing her Masters in Social Work at Columbia University with a focus in advanced clinical practice.


Valerie Wagner graduated from Exeter in 1983, and earned her B.A. from Pomona College and J.D. from the University of California, Hastings College of the Law. Valerie has been a practicing attorney in California for over 25 years and her practice currently focuses on litigation and data privacy. She has been involved in the support of survivors of sexual abuse at Exeter for several years and is one of the founding members of PATH. She lives in San Francisco with her husband, son, and three dogs.