Ann Malabre graduated from Exeter in 1981 and earned her B.S. in Biology from Trinity College and M.A.T. from Simmons College. She is a trauma recovery coach, facilitator, and educator. Trained in conflict resolution and the neuroscience of trauma, she is an advocate for healing, change, and accountability in the response to sexual violence. She has 10 years of training in understanding and disentangling intergenerational trauma in family systems and works with collective trauma in organizational systems. She is a consultant in conflict resolution and restorative processes. She facilitates survivor support circles dedicated to healing and recovery within families after child sexual abuse, and is a leader of the Safe(r) Adult Program at HiddenWater. Ann is a program assistant for Sarah Peyton, author, international speaker, and neuroscience educator. Ann was an Associate Dean of Students at Governor’s Academy (Byfield, MA), and an instructor and instructor trainer at Hurricane Island, North Carolina Outward Bound School, and Kurt Hahn Leadership Center. Ann willingly supports survivors of sexual misconduct from Exeter in any way that is meaningful to them.
Julia Gray graduated from Exeter in 1997 and went on to pursue degrees in Music Performance and English. She worked in arts administration at Carnegie Hall for ten years before stepping away from the professional workforce to be a full-time mother to her two sons. Inspired in large part by her work with PATH and Exeter survivors of sexual harm, Julia is currently completing her Master’s in Social Work at Columbia University with a focus on advanced clinical practice.
Valerie Wagner graduated from Exeter in 1983 and earned her B.A. from Pomona College and J.D. from the University of California, Hastings College of the Law. Valerie has been a practicing attorney in California for over 25 years and her practice currently focuses on litigation and data privacy. She has been involved in the support of survivors of sexual abuse at Exeter for several years and is one of the founding members of PATH. She lives in San Francisco with her husband, son, and three dogs.